Saturday, January 9, 2010

Massive Self Help Confusion.

So every so often I learn things about self improvement or self growth or whatever that makes perfect sense - but at the same time it seems to contradict something else - that also makes perfect sense. This happened to me recently.

The first advice was from Tony Robbins - I feed my head and emotions with Tony Robbins stuff constantly. It was about giving up. How you should never ever ever give up on your dream or something you want to accomplish. The idea is that most people who do give up - do so just before they were about to reach success. There are countless examples of people who had a vision and pushed and pushed and did whatever it took to reach their goal. But they went through adversity and obstacles that would have made the vast majority of people just give up. SO - success is always just around the corner from where people stop trying. All you have to do to be successful is just NEVER STOP trying.

The second advice - which also made sense was - to fail quickly. The idea is that if you are trying to accomplish something, be honest with yourself about how likely success is. If it doesn't seem likely to work out - move on to something else right away. Even if you don't know what opportunities or options are coming next. Close one door and another one will open. Even if you don't know when or where or how - it will. I believe this too.

And then to top it all off I heard some advice about how there are no mistakes. Everything you experience is exactly what you are supposed to be experiencing. The path is perfect and every failure carries with it a seed of success.

So what's right??? Well I think that all depends on if you love what you are doing. Do you have a PASSION for what you are trying to accomplish??? Do you have a vision for ultimate success??? Can you feel it in your soul???

If yes - then never stop. No matter what. Ever. And you will be successful - guaranteed.

If no - shut the door right now. Don't even think about it - just shut it. Even if you don't know your passion yet - it may be waiting for you beyond the NEXT door. You deserve to love what you are doing. So stop now.

And on top of all of that - no matter what you decide - the path IS perfect, there are no mistakes no matter what you decide - and success and perfect happiness is on it's way.

Jason and Tim

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